Be Soft
One thing that's been on my mind recently is the idea that I'm "too soft" of a teacher. This really bothered me the first few times I've heard it. I've had a few teachers imply this but not directly say it, and I've had two kids directly say it to me. I distinctly remember it being my mission to try and be less "soft" in middle school and high school. I felt like I was a people pleaser or a push over and I hated it. And I have come a long way to what I believe is a good balance for me. So I was curious why these comments at school made me so mad. I guess I was so mad because I feel like I'm constantly trying to not be perceived that way? I've come to realize that even though my classroom procedures and expectations are pretty strict, I am more of a soft person in the way that I speak and interact with the kids. There was this one day where I was so mad that I was yelling at the kids about how disappointed I was in their behavior. I felt...